Be to myself what I want in another person
Why? Because if you don't, you will be everything but what your really want to be... You will be what the other person is, good or bad!
I decided that this would make a great topic for today. To find out what others have to say, I entered the phrase as a search term into Google and Yahoo. To say I was appalled by the results is an understatement. Most of the results had to do with people who wanted to kill themselves, that nobody loved them, and complaints about how others had treated them badly. Maybe on second thought, it was mean't for me to see these postings to verify to myself what I already know.
This is a lesson that I didn't learn until I was older, like gray hair older. Everyone a person comes in contact with affects that person. I rub dirt on my hand, I have dirt on my hand.
If we associate with people who have wrong thinking, loose morals, criminal actions and such, over time it will break down our boundaries and change us.
Our personalities, actions, thought processes and behaviors, are an amalgamation of all the people and social environments we have been in contact with in our lives. Of course, the more time we spend with any one individual or in a particular social environment, the more we absorb of that individual and social environment.
We are a product of our social environment.
So knowing this we can answer a few questions that you may have about your life and life situations.
So the choice is yours, take responsibility for yourself and pre qualify your social environment and relationships to meet the criteria of the kind of person and life you wish to lead.
Its all about attraction, so...Be to yourself what you want in another person and that is what you will attract to yourself and your life.
And don't blame others for your life, you attracted everything in your life to yourself.... change what you attract.
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Why? Because if you don't, you will be everything but what your really want to be... You will be what the other person is, good or bad!
I decided that this would make a great topic for today. To find out what others have to say, I entered the phrase as a search term into Google and Yahoo. To say I was appalled by the results is an understatement. Most of the results had to do with people who wanted to kill themselves, that nobody loved them, and complaints about how others had treated them badly. Maybe on second thought, it was mean't for me to see these postings to verify to myself what I already know.
This is a lesson that I didn't learn until I was older, like gray hair older. Everyone a person comes in contact with affects that person. I rub dirt on my hand, I have dirt on my hand.
If we associate with people who have wrong thinking, loose morals, criminal actions and such, over time it will break down our boundaries and change us.
Our personalities, actions, thought processes and behaviors, are an amalgamation of all the people and social environments we have been in contact with in our lives. Of course, the more time we spend with any one individual or in a particular social environment, the more we absorb of that individual and social environment.
We are a product of our social environment.
So knowing this we can answer a few questions that you may have about your life and life situations.
- Why am I a loser?
- Why do I always fail?
- Why am I always in trouble?
- Why does everything always happen to me?
- Why doesn't anyone love me?
- Why do I never have the things I want?
Take a good look at the environment you are in and the company you keep.
This social attraction works in both directions. If you want to attract people that are winners, successful and living good lives, you must strive to be a winner, successful and live a good life to attract those people and values into your own lives.
- Are they winners?
- Are they successful?
- Are they always in trouble?
- Are they leading good wholesome lives?
- Are they loving and respectfull to others?
- Are they grateful for the things they have?
So the choice is yours, take responsibility for yourself and pre qualify your social environment and relationships to meet the criteria of the kind of person and life you wish to lead.
Its all about attraction, so...Be to yourself what you want in another person and that is what you will attract to yourself and your life.
And don't blame others for your life, you attracted everything in your life to yourself.... change what you attract.
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